Week 15: The Tale of Laughing Boy #107days

So we’re here again, the end of #107days for the second time. It is hard to believe it’s now two years since LB died. There really aren’t any words. Today we’re pleased to be able to share The Tale of Laughing Boy with you.

Produced by the brilliant My Life My Choice and Oxford Digital Media, with funding from Oxford City Council, grab a cuppa and sit back to watch.

Thanks to each and every one of you who have supported #JusticeforLB these past two years and both #107days campaigns. As Sara says of the campaign in the film:

‘These people haven’t met Connor, they don’t know Connor and yet they recognise the injustice of what’s happened, they recognise what a quirky and colourful individual he was and they’re acting, and they’re prepared to say this is wrong and join in. I think that’s absolutely amazing, it’s been so heart warming and so reassuring that so many people have stepped up and done all these different things and got in touch, and are really moved by it all. They just get it, I think that’s great, that has meant the world to us’.

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As for Sara’s hopes for the future:

‘My beyond wildest dreams would be that… we didn’t even have to talk about learning disabled people, because there wouldn’t need to be that division, because everybody would have a right to live where they choose, everybody has an imagined future, and the distinction between being learning disabled and being non-learning disabled would become sort of irrelevant, because it isn’t an issue’.

Final word goes to Rich:

‘In many respects the world would be a lot better place if we all behaved more like Connor and less like not-Connors; his sort of approach to life was so straight forward and simple… uncomplicated… you just sort of think I wish I could be more like that, I wish we could all be more like that… we should all be more like Connor and people like Connor and the world would be a much better place, and it would be a much more inclusive place, and actually we might all enjoy it a bit more.

Imagine, just imagine for a moment…. and ACT!

What a difference a year makes? #JusticeforLB

It’s now 74 days since the spectacular finale of the #107days campaign, 439 days since LB died, preventably in STATT.

Progress towards #JusticeforLB continues at a pace, in the last week alone we’ve unveiled the beautiful LB Justice Quilt, and yesterday we launched the LB Bill website. All this in addition to the other actions documented in our earlier post about maintaining momentum. Quite a lot of action for an entirely volunteer campaign figured headed by a family in the worst situation imaginable. So yesterday Sara and I were talking about how much has been achieved since the end of the #107days, in those 74 days.

Contrast that progress with the progress made in STATT in the 74 days that immediately followed LB’s death. Over to Sara:

Apologies for the somewhat ironic title for this post. A year ago this week, the CQC went into the Slade House site (which included the STATT unit) and did an inspection that (at last) made visible the level of disfunction/malaise/failure that characterised provision there.

A marker of how bad it was, LB’s death hadn’t sparked any apparent consideration around whether or not there might be issues around the quality of care provided. Nothing, in 74 days after the worse outcome of ‘care’ imaginable, no action, no change, no improvement.

The CQC inspection team pitched up for a routine inspection and did their job.

The full horror of what the team found can be read here. It’s a deeply sad, harrowing, unbelievable and enraging read. And was followed by similar failures at other provision in Oxfordshire.

Here in the justice shed we try to remain positive and optimistic so, in the spirit of 107 days of action, we raise a cuppa to the CQC and effective inspection of health and social care provision.
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It is impossible to know, but our suspicion is that without CQC conducting routine inspections, issuing enforcement action and continuing to monitor the ‘progress’ at Southern Health, it is a very real possibility that STATT could still be open. The inevitable outcome of that is too much to imagine.

We have a long old road to get #JusticeforLB, but there are inklings that in small ways we may already be improving things for other dudes. So, as ever, thanks for all your support. Huge thanks also to CQC, for doing their job, but doing it with care, compassion and attention to detail, something the evidence suggest were rare commodities around STATT.

Day 84: Mothering in the extreme #107days

Day 84 was adopted by Chrissie. Here’s why she is supporting #JusticeforLB and #107days:

I think Sara is brill, and met her several years ago, along with Katherine Runswick-Cole (Mum’s and sociologists together), oh and we’re going to write a book, but it never happened, YET.

I saw Sara at a conference in Coventry, not long before LB’s death. Things were not okay, and Sara looked pretty drained… I went away with a heavy heart.

My daughter is 27 years old, learning disabled, fun, and one of her big loves is cutting out piccies from the Argos book – they tend to be bottom drawer items, and then she makes lists. She also loves performing!

I cannot feel what Sara is, but do worry for a future for my dude-ess and all others out there.

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Chrissie wanted to do something to support the #107days campaign and today she is giving a seminar for staff and students at Aston University. You can check out Chrissie’s presentation below and we think it looks phenomenal:

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Day 74: Letting the light in #107days

Day 74 was adopted by Fiona, an eLearning designer and video producer from Northern Ireland, who is interested in how we might use technology and media to reduce inequality and injustice. This is what she had to say about why she’s supporting #JusticeforLB and #107days:

A few months ago, a couple of tweets from a lady called Sara Ryan were retweeted in my Twitter timeline. Shocked by what I read, I looked at her profile and made my way to her blog. Two hours later I was still there, reading Sara’s blog. It was fantastically joyous and devastatingly sad in equal measure.

Many years ago, I lost my brother to cancer. He was 13 and I was 15. Unlike Sara’s son, Connor (aka Laughing Boy = LB), there was no incompetence involved in his death. But it was at a time when cancer services for children could at best be described as primitive. When you overhear a GP telling your mum that she’s being selfish when she’s feeling afraid to give her child morphine, you know there is something not quite right.

So, when Sara described trying to push the horrors away so that she can remember the good times with LB, it resonated with me. I was hooked into Sara’s story and wanted to become involved, and help, somehow.

And grief is a strange beast. In the immediate aftermath of a death, it almost protects you – numbness, shock, shutdown, self-preservation, darkness. As time goes on, chinks of light get in. You try to remember what was good about the person and use it to drown out the horrors. For years, I remember not being able to see my brother’s face, then one day, I could.

So today I dedicate this blog to letting the light in. In my own family, they couldn’t talk about my brother – It took them almost 10 years to put a headstone on his grave. His name is rarely mentioned, even now, some 25 years later. I loved how in Sara’s blog, she shared stories of LB, and little snippets of conversation. How Sara is coping with her pain and grief is a true inspiration.

This is what Fiona has to say about #JusticeforLB and all dudes/dudettes:

As well as seeking justice for LB, I love how the #107days campaign is highlighting the general crap provision and support for people with learning disabilities in our society. There are so many inequalities around people with learning disabilities. I continue to be shocked when I read statistics on this, for example – more likely to die younger – on average 16 years sooner than everyone else. If this was any other section of society, there would be people on the streets! You can read more about the inequality research here.

The very people we should be protecting the most in society are often discounted as an ‘inferior species’ not worthy of our full attention.

But improving life for our brothers and sisters with learning disabilities is not all about statistics. It is about all of us. In her blog, Sara talked about people who worked with LB, the Charlie’s Angel story made me smile so much. Sara also talked of how LB’s brothers and sister and their friends seemed to find an easy way of happily being together. If this can happen at a family and local community level, then there is no excuse for wider society getting it wrong.

Nurturing the Potential

We all need help to reach our potential. Sadly, if you have learning disabilities, this doesn’t happen in the way that it should. I’ll leave you with a story from a dude that I know. Eoin is 23 and lives near Derry in Northern Ireland. He tells us about his love of learning about World War II and his work as a volunteer in local events. Eoin is thriving and has had several short work placements in local businesses who have welcomed and supported him. Here’s Eoin…

The video is taking a while to sync within the post, but you can watch it on YouTube here.

We’re grateful to Fiona, and to Eoin, for sharing their experiences with us. Our hope is that everyone will receive the support they need to reach their potential, otherwise, to be blunt we’re talking about lives half lived. Surely we’re past that?